@alphafemale
a list i made for myself. - some people earn way more than you in completely ordinary jobs simply because they had better opportunities. life is not a fair comparison game. - distractions are the biggest enemy of success. they slowly damage your ability to think deeply. - do not take advice from people who are not where you want to be in life. - no one is coming to solve your problems. that responsibility is fully yours. - you do not need hundreds of self help books. you need action and discipline. - if you did not study a profession like medicine or engineering, learning sales can make you more money in 90 days than most degrees. - no one is truly paying attention to you, so stop being shy. go out and create your own opportunities. - when you meet someone smarter than you, collaborate instead of competing. - smoking does nothing useful. it slows your thinking and kills focus. - being overly comfortable can lead to bad habits and low morale. - do not overshare personal information. keep certain things private. - stay away from alcohol. losing control rarely ends well. - keep your standards high. do not accept something just because it is easy. - the family you build matters more than the family you were born into. - learn not to take everything personally. it saves you from unnecessary mental damage. - if you do not remove distractions from your life, they will keep removing you from your goals.